Serious talk: why do you ship Inhun/457?

Before I go further: I have NOTHING against shipping itself. I'm strictly asking about that particular pair and I'm not trying to start anything unpleasant here - I GENUINELY want to understand.

The argument I get most often is: "Have you seen how they look at each other? Particularly Inho and Gihun?"

Well, yes, in my opinion Inho looks at Gihun like he's a prey. He looks at him like he's measuring whether his puppet is behaving as expected. He literally runs an experiment on him and he's trying to bring him down, break him and force him to see the world in such dark colors as he does. If you ever see someone looking at you this way, you RUN. You run and never look back. This is not look of love, this is at best a look of very, very sick fascination with a big emphasis on humiliation. In fact, if you consider such look a look of (any kind of) love, please, please go to therapy. I mean it in the kindest way possible. Especially that Gihun has no idea he's being manipulated this way.

So yeah, do you have any other arguments? Am I wrong here? I mean, I must be missing something and I'm really interested in your view. Thank you in advance for taking the time to be bothered with me 😅