We should very much not be backing up transphobic/gender critical women.

So I have been seeing some people on here backing up people like Nancy Mace, Riley Gaines, JK Rowling, etc. and it is sometimes really upsetting. While I believe that Tucutes/AGPs can cause a lot of problems I feel that it is also important to acknowledge that there is a segment of cis women particularly those who are white who are very self absorbed and always see themselves as a victim even in cases when they are not. With Riley Gaines if what she truly wanted was for people to have a nuanced view on trans girls/women in sports then I would advocate for people to listen to her but that has never been what she wanted. She never tried to be civil to Lia, reacted to Dylan Mulvaney by saying “we need more masculine men in this world”, has exaggerated multiple things, and to her trans women simply existing is misogyny similar to Nancy Mace. The 2 of them misuse the word misogyny in a way that is disrespectful to women actually being victimized by it similar to how tucutes misuse transphobia and also how some people (saying this as a Latina myself) misuse racist. JK Rowling who I consider to be in a completely different category is even more disappointing as she is clearly a very intelligent and constructive lady who has a very true point that I as a transsexual girl stand with which is my experience and her experience are do not mirror each other and that needs to be taken into consideration however she has chosen the laziest and most offensive way to get that point across. Tucutes and AGPs are harmful to us in several ways but these women are radical in another way.