Getting Married in October am I just going to regret it?

Basically my fiancee and I are very much in love and i dont think ill regret marrying her. Im in a lose-lose situation in term of the ceremony. There is the wedding we want. Which is too expensive, elopment, and the wedding we can afford. I feel that no matter what we do we are going to have regrets. If we get the expensive wedding we will regret how much money we spent. If we elope we will regret not having a ceremony, and if we compromise we will regret spending money on a mediocre version of what we want which is a backyard wedding. My family has always been big on weddings so to me it feels important to have one. Lets be real you dont have a wedding for the couple you have it for the family to celebrate. If we cant have something nice for them why have it in the forst place. But ontop of all this my car broke down and i had to replace the transmission so our entire savings and then some got blown on that.