Feel like a hypocrite because I have trouble reading social cues and therefore want direct communication...meanwhile, I can't seem to directly communicate with others.
A community for autists that are not cisgender males. We discuss the struggles, triumphs, and mundane life events that come with our autistic experience. We're LGBTQIA+ inclusive. TERFS not welcome. We are open to those who are self-suspecting autism, self-diagnosed as autistic, and formally diagnosed autistic (regardless of age), as we recognize the barriers around formal diagnosis and assessment. Please engage kindly, read the rules, and use modmail if you have any questions.
Autism stereotypes you relate to vs. ones you don't
A community for autists that are not cisgender males. We discuss the struggles, triumphs, and mundane life events that come with our autistic experience. We're LGBTQIA+ inclusive. TERFS not welcome. We are open to those who are self-suspecting autism, self-diagnosed as autistic, and formally diagnosed autistic (regardless of age), as we recognize the barriers around formal diagnosis and assessment. Please engage kindly, read the rules, and use modmail if you have any questions.
How do I (26F) break things off with a guy (25M) who wants something way more serious than I do, without hurting his feelings too much?
Need help with your relationship? Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help!
How to navigate a difference in dating experience
This is a place where you can ask for advice on many subjects. Everybody has issues that they run into, and everyone needs advice every now and again. This is Reddit's very own solution-hub.
Job searching as an AuDHDer is absolute hell
Did a recruiter make you send them a resume and still fill out all the same information on their website? Did a candidate send a cover letter that just says "PLEASE LET ME WORK HERE"? Tell us those stories!
What people don't understand is that I'm mean to myself so rejection from others hurts less...I'm aware it's unhealthy, but I wish people would understand why it's a hard habit to break.
For the people with RSD (rejection sensitive dysphoria) to vent and talk about our issues because apparently we don't have a community yet!!!????? Not very many rules, I just created this community because I was shocked to see there isn't one yet! Obviously the usual: don't be racist, homophobic, transphobic, or show any other prejudice or hatred towards a minority! Be kind and don't be judgemental!
I'm in a deep state of autistic burnout and need to quit my current job. I want to replace it with one that requires little to no social interaction, but I feel like I can't flat-out say that to employers
For adults who are on the autistic spectrum, or think they might be on the autistic spectrum, regardless of diagnostic status. This is a relaxed, rules-light community, preferring discussion rather than memes and media. Non-autistic people are welcome if they are here for the benefit of autistic people (see Rule 1 before posting).
Okay is me being confused about this an autistic thing? I'm trying to apply for jobs and the categories seem so limited & not specific enough. (Context in the comments, for some reason I've tried but I can't attach both a picture and text to the post.)

A community for autists that are not cisgender males. We discuss the struggles, triumphs, and mundane life events that come with our autistic experience. We're LGBTQIA+ inclusive. TERFS not welcome. We are open to those who are self-suspecting autism, self-diagnosed as autistic, and formally diagnosed autistic (regardless of age), as we recognize the barriers around formal diagnosis and assessment. Please engage kindly, read the rules, and use modmail if you have any questions.
Jobs that won't drain me of all my energy
A community for autists that are not cisgender males. We discuss the struggles, triumphs, and mundane life events that come with our autistic experience. We're LGBTQIA+ inclusive. TERFS not welcome. We are open to those who are self-suspecting autism, self-diagnosed as autistic, and formally diagnosed autistic (regardless of age), as we recognize the barriers around formal diagnosis and assessment. Please engage kindly, read the rules, and use modmail if you have any questions.
I cry every single time I have a disagreement with my boyfriend and it seems to be draining for him. But I don't know how to make myself stop.
Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder is rarely discussed in public forums, even though healthy connection to others is an integral part of healing. This is a peer support community for those who have undergone prolonged trauma and came out the other side alive and kicking, but with wounds that need tending. This is also a place for friends and family of the victims to come for support.
Don't know if this is an RSD thing but I am absolutely TERRIBLE at saying "no" if the reason is simply "I don't feel like it"
A safe space for those who identify as both Autistic and having ADHD - self-diagnosed, clinically assessed or questioning. Everyone is welcome, including non-binary, trans, or any other folks who feel they belong in femme-focused spaces. Please respect our Community Guidelines and refer to the Rules for more info: 1. We recognize Autism and ADHD as disabilities. 2. We can offer advice and support but not a diagnosis. 3. AuDHD is challenging for all of us; please try to communicate with kindness.
The pros & cons of being a DSP who also has autism
A place for DSPs, Hablititaion techs, treatment service techs, or whatever the hell your job position is. Basically if you take care of individuals with any type of disabilities, come on over and share some stories.
For those of you whose parents are very obviously also autistic but never considered that about themselves...did you ever try to point out their autistic tendencies to them, or did you avoid discussing it?
A community for autists that are not cisgender males. We discuss the struggles, triumphs, and mundane life events that come with our autistic experience. We're LGBTQIA+ inclusive. TERFS not welcome. We are open to those who are self-suspecting autism, self-diagnosed as autistic, and formally diagnosed autistic (regardless of age), as we recognize the barriers around formal diagnosis and assessment. Please engage kindly, read the rules, and use modmail if you have any questions.
Most autistic people I've met are obsessed with anime, and I have just NEVER gotten into it. It sometimes makes me feel like an outsider even among fellow autistics. Anyone else?
A community for autists that are not cisgender males. We discuss the struggles, triumphs, and mundane life events that come with our autistic experience. We're LGBTQIA+ inclusive. TERFS not welcome. We are open to those who are self-suspecting autism, self-diagnosed as autistic, and formally diagnosed autistic (regardless of age), as we recognize the barriers around formal diagnosis and assessment. Please engage kindly, read the rules, and use modmail if you have any questions.
Funny how this works
A community for autists that are not cisgender males. We discuss the struggles, triumphs, and mundane life events that come with our autistic experience. We're LGBTQIA+ inclusive. TERFS not welcome. We are open to those who are self-suspecting autism, self-diagnosed as autistic, and formally diagnosed autistic (regardless of age), as we recognize the barriers around formal diagnosis and assessment. Please engage kindly, read the rules, and use modmail if you have any questions.
Question specifically for my autistic homies: Did Big Mouth do a good job of portraying sensory overload?
A subreddit dedicated to the TV show Big Mouth (and its spinoff, Human Resources)
What's everyone's favorite song(s) from Season 7?
A subreddit dedicated to the TV show Big Mouth (and its spinoff, Human Resources)
Is it my place as a DSP to make suggestions of things/products I think my clients could benefit from?
A place for DSPs, Hablititaion techs, treatment service techs, or whatever the hell your job position is. Basically if you take care of individuals with any type of disabilities, come on over and share some stories.
DAE do their taxes last-minute
A safe space for those who identify as both Autistic and having ADHD - self-diagnosed, clinically assessed or questioning. Everyone is welcome, including non-binary, trans, or any other folks who feel they belong in femme-focused spaces. Please respect our Community Guidelines and refer to the Rules for more info: 1. We recognize Autism and ADHD as disabilities. 2. We can offer advice and support but not a diagnosis. 3. AuDHD is challenging for all of us; please try to communicate with kindness.
How do they think nothing is different about my brain
A community for autists that are not cisgender males. We discuss the struggles, triumphs, and mundane life events that come with our autistic experience. We're LGBTQIA+ inclusive. TERFS not welcome. We are open to those who are self-suspecting autism, self-diagnosed as autistic, and formally diagnosed autistic (regardless of age), as we recognize the barriers around formal diagnosis and assessment. Please engage kindly, read the rules, and use modmail if you have any questions.
If you can't handle me at my stimming, social anxiety, and meltdowns...
A community for autists that are not cisgender males. We discuss the struggles, triumphs, and mundane life events that come with our autistic experience. We're LGBTQIA+ inclusive. TERFS not welcome. We are open to those who are self-suspecting autism, self-diagnosed as autistic, and formally diagnosed autistic (regardless of age), as we recognize the barriers around formal diagnosis and assessment. Please engage kindly, read the rules, and use modmail if you have any questions.
Unpopular opinions (at least on this sub)
Welcome to r/Degrassi! Home of all things relating to the Degrassi franchise past, present and future! It has spanned five series since 1979, most notably Degrassi Junior High, Degrassi High and Degrassi: The Next Generation. If you are new or want to know where to watch, please read the pinned post "Newcomer's Guide To Degrassi".
I don't know if people have already been saying this for years, or if it's a less popular opinion, but...I feel like Jane is autistic-coded
Subreddit for the CW show Jane the Virgin, which ran for 5 seasons, ending in 2019. Set in Miami, the series follows the surprising, funny, and romantic events that take place in the life of Jane Villanueva, a hard-working, religious young Latina woman whose life is forever changed after a doctor mistakenly inseminates her during a routine checkup.
My anxiety surrounding phone calls to strangers is paralyzing and I honestly don't know if I'll ever get over it.
A safe space for those who identify as both Autistic and having ADHD - self-diagnosed, clinically assessed or questioning. Everyone is welcome, including non-binary, trans, or any other folks who feel they belong in femme-focused spaces. Please respect our Community Guidelines and refer to the Rules for more info: 1. We recognize Autism and ADHD as disabilities. 2. We can offer advice and support but not a diagnosis. 3. AuDHD is challenging for all of us; please try to communicate with kindness.
Do anyone else's stimming behaviors increase when they have a stuffy nose?
A safe space for those who identify as both Autistic and having ADHD - self-diagnosed, clinically assessed or questioning. Everyone is welcome, including non-binary, trans, or any other folks who feel they belong in femme-focused spaces. Please respect our Community Guidelines and refer to the Rules for more info: 1. We recognize Autism and ADHD as disabilities. 2. We can offer advice and support but not a diagnosis. 3. AuDHD is challenging for all of us; please try to communicate with kindness.